First of all I hate how many people’s first response will be that ‘hate’ is a strong word. So what; FREEDOM OF EXPRESSION
I hate when skinny people (mainly girls/women) complain that they are/look fat. I hate this for a number of reasons:
1. A lot of the time it’s just fishing for compliments so people will say ‘no your not/ don’t look fat, your so skinny’ blah blah blah
2. It’s a total insult to those who weigh even slightly more than the skinny person never mind someone who is obviously alot heavier because it implies that they clearly think these people are also fat or obese in comparison to their skinny mini selves!
I am quite comfortable with how I look, I feel that I am neither overweight or underweight & have quite a realistic sense of body image. Of course like everyone I have insecure days but I do understand that some people do genuinely think they are fat when they’re not i.e. distorted sense of self image or other body issues etc. But don’t voice your insecurities in a way that ultimately makes other people feel insecure. At the very least stick with ‘I feel’ rather than ‘I am’ -everyone has the right to feel a certain way but it’s not necessarily how it actually is – Act like you know the difference!